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What happens when you stop spending?
06/25/25 - Wednesday

Hey Friend,
No-spend challenges seem simple: stop spending, save money.
But what you actually get out of them often has nothing to do with your bank account.

When you stop buying, you start noticing—the default scrolls, the boredom-buys, the ways you use spending to soothe or avoid.
And that awareness?
It’s the first step toward more intentional choices in every part of your life.
Before you spend—check this out from Brad’s Deals.
When you pause spending, it’s smart to take stock of what you’re already paying for.
If you have an Amazon Prime membership, you might be missing out on perks like unlimited photo storage, early access to Lightning Deals, and even free podcasts.
Brad’s Deals put together a list of 9 surprising Prime benefits that can help you save—without spending another cent.
It’s a great reminder that sometimes the best deals are the ones hiding in plain sight.
Once you start paying attention, everything shifts:
You unsubscribe from marketing emails—and feel lighter
You rediscover what’s in your pantry or closet—and get creative
You start a “Buy Later” list—and realize how much was impulse
You swap, borrow, or make do—and feel more capable than ever
And over time, what you gain goes deeper:
Clarity — You learn what really matters to you
Resilience — You face discomfort without numbing it with shopping
Honesty — You catch your own justifications in real time
Creativity — You stretch your resources and feel proud of it
Connection — You make room for more meaningful experiences
Spending less isn’t about restriction—it’s about reconnection.
With your values, your habits, and what you truly want more of.
Get More!
Buy What You Love Without Going Broke has a whole chapter on how to do a NSC!
Should You Try a No-Spend Challenge? (Frugal Friends Podcast)

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See ya Friday pal,
Misti

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