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Are YOU Overconsuming These 4 Influencer Traps?
01/23/26 - Friday

Hey friend,
Have you ever caught yourself thinking,
“Everyone does this now, so it must be fine… right?”
That is exactly what we’re unpacking in this week’s episode.
Somewhere along the way, influencer culture quietly shifted what feels normal spending-wise.
Not in a dramatic, obvious way. In a slow, drip💧 drip💧 way that makes overconsumption feel justified, expected, and even self-care coded.
This week on the pod, we talk about 4 things influencers have normalized that many of us are still overconsuming, even when we are trying to be intentional with our money.
We won’t spoil the whole list here, but let’s just say it involves:
Everyday choices that quietly cost way more than they used to
Experiences that feel mandatory instead of optional
Small “treats” that don’t feel small when you zoom out
And the pressure to constantly keep up with seasons, trends, and vibes
If you’ve ever said “It’s not that much” and then wondered where your money went, this episode is for you.
A quick mindset shift we loved from this convo
Overconsumption is not about bad self control.
It is about exposure.
When you constantly see something framed as normal, responsible, or deserved, your brain stops questioning it.
That’s why this conversation isn’t about guilt. It is about awareness. Once you see the pattern, you get your choice back.
Speaking of choices you get back…
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Thanks for being here, thinking critically, and choosing what actually supports your life instead of what just looks normal online.
With you,
Jen & Jill
P.S. If this episode makes you pause mid scroll or mid checkout, that is a win. Awareness always comes before change.
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